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Lessons learned from 2020

2020 is a year like no other! It brought challenges and chaos that halted our lives' joyous occasions and celebrations. It was a year of inconvenience and disruptions on what we all know as a normal life. Businesses and institutions were shut down, most economies were affected, and we were all forced into isolation, and social distancing rules. Many lives were taken this year, leaving so many grief stricken. It brought confusion and panic, and made many of us live in a state of fear and constant anxiety.

However, if you take a moment to pause and look at what we all gained this year, you will realize that Covid-19, which was the greatest global challenge for this year made heroes of our essential workers. It forced us to work together, to think about others, to adapt to the constant changes and uncertainties. It taught us to alter our goals and evaluate our alternatives, to be resourceful and resilient. It compelled us to think out of the box and be willing to try new things that will bring a little bit of normalcy into our lives. It taught us all to accept what is, and hold on to our faiths as we all try to lean on our leaders and each other, as we collaborate and cooperate towards a common goal.

2020 brought a mass awakening that allowed most of us to embrace our faiths, strengthen our beliefs in humanity and to continue to strive to shine our lights for each other.

Yes, it is a year like no other…

Leap of Faith, by Lou Principe, Acrylic, 9 X 12
Leap of Faith, Acrylic, 9 X 12

Looking back, I choose to see the many blessings disguised as trials and tribulations, havoc and heartaches.


Personally, this year has left with me with quite a list of lessons.

2020 taught me...

To reassess my priorities and balance my time

To adapt, be flexible and resilient to life's challenges and changes

To acknowledge my emotions and be mindful of my actions

To refrain from complaining about life's misgivings

To be grateful for all my daily blessings, both big and small

To practice positive self talk and be a better listener

To stay disciplined and take accountability towards my goals and my actions

To invite expansion, growth, collaboration and abundance mind-set

To take a deep dive and get to know myself better

To discover new talents I had no idea I have

To step out of my comfort level and take a leap of faith

To find the courage to share my gifts to the world

To stop resisting and accept what is

To give up worrying about things I cannot control

To move forward even if I'm not sure where the road leads me

To breathe, be okay with not knowing, and trust that I am divinely guided

To realize we're not too old to learn new things

To embrace all our flaws, shortcomings and imperfections

To love myself unconditionally for I am worthy

To give myself grace when learning new things and making mistakes

To bless people who have hurt me

To forgive people who have betrayed me

To take the lessons I've learned and practice my newly found wisdom

To set healthy boundaries for myself and stop spreading myself too thin

To practice discerning true and loyal friends

To let go of so-called friends that no longer serves my soul

To develop new friendships and nourish healthy relationships

To surprisingly enjoy the company of me, myself and I

To encourage and motivate people to stay positive and to shine their lights

To spread beauty, love and inspiration through my gifts, words and actions

To understand that we are all different, yet we are one and the same

To accept that no man is an island, that we do need one another.

 

Surely, 2020 has taught me so many hard lessons. But my top lesson this year was finding the courage to take a leap of faith, the leap that I had been avoiding for so long because I was too scared to leave my comfort level, and too frightened to face what's in store for me.

It forced me to open old doors that had always been right in front of me, but I just kept looking past it, making excuses and justifications for not even trying, yet feeling frustrated and stuck for not moving forward.

Once I opened my consciousness to what my heart and soul had been urging me all along, I was transformed to be the person I was meant to be.

So, unlike others, I won't say good riddance to 2020, but instead I would say Thank You! A big, heartfelt thank you for making my heart full, and for making my soul shine!

2020 will never be forgotten for it has been my catapult to get myself out there, and show the world what I am made of - a constant work in progress, with so much beauty, love and light to offer and share to the world!

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